The Relaxed Homeschool

By Kim Lundberg ( readmama)

Tired of hectic homeschooling? Then you’ve come to the right place! Pull up a chair and join in as we chat about homeschooling the relaxed way!

Kim Lundberg contributes the "Homeschooling Highschool" column in Home School Enrichment Magazine.
December 2008
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The Simple Choice

Mon, Dec 22nd - 3:43PM

Merry Christmas to all of you hard-working, family-loving homeschoolers!

This month has been packed with eight different drama performances, but last week I finally managed to get the tree and a few decorations up so it looks like Christmas around here now. I sent out our cards with a family newsletter, and over the past several days (and overflowing into this week...), I've been helping my 17yo daughter with her many college applications (all coming due very soon).

My oldest two kids are home visiting for a while, so the house is full to the ceilings (nearly literally) -- and I must admit that it's also quite loud. With laughter and jokes and more laughter and shared memories and lots and lots of food and intense political discussions and more laughter and more food and ... yeah, like that.

To put us in the real spirit of the seasson, our weather has cooled down, and we even had some snow last week -- for a whole hour or so on three different days before it melted! My 10yo made a wonderful (actually, pathetically small and smooshed together and half-dirt, but pretend I didn't say that...) snowman. I give her extra points for ingenuity and optimism.

On another blog I write, one of my categories is called A Simpler Life. That's because a "simpler" life is something I strive to live. Hence, my mode of homeschooling -- the relaxed style. I've read books upon books on the advantages of simplicity. Maybe you have, too. I believe in the simple life. I long for it. And usually I live it.

But sometimes the simple life has heaps of deadlines and detailed requirements thrust upon it, and we have no choice.

For there to be major drama productions, there must be costume fittings, technical adjustments, and dress rehearsals. For there to be college educations and scholarships (at least in this family), there must be a season of tests and essays, auditions and apps. For there to be happy kids in a crowded house, there must be plenty of food, and thus, mother must routinely visit the grocery store.

But there are other times we make a choice to stray from the simple path for various foolish reasons. I am just as guilty as anyone else despite my self-proclaimed love of the "simpler" life. Yet knowing our weakness is more than half the battle, for we can only fight against what we know. Sometimes I'm tempted to buy just one more gift, plan just one more activity, say "yes" to just one more request on my time and sanity, but then I remind myself to step back and evaluate.

Am I being the person I am called to be? Am I doing what I am called to do? Am I following the path that has been laid before me?

Because really -- it's just that simple.

Blessings on you all this Christmas,

Kim

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Drama, drama, drama...

Mon, Nov 10th - 6:00PM

Ok, so it's been almost 4 months since I posted in my blog here... but who's counting, right?

Really, I do apologize. I know blogs are supposed to be a little more consistent, and I will attempt to do better in the future...

The thing is -- that old saying about "time flying by" -- well, it's true, isn't it?

I teach drama classes to about 50 kids on a weekly basis, and this semester our older group is performing Thornton Wilder's "Our Town." Of course, "Our Town" is not a Christian play, but one of the main messages in it has really hit home for me lately.

Take time to notice the little things. Take time to listen to each other. Take time to show your love.

We all have heard this advice many times, but do we actually follow it?

As we decorate our homes and plan the big family dinner this Thanksgiving season, let's remember to thank God daily for all the things we usually take for granted.

And then let's remember to really live in the moment, laughing with our children, appreciating our spouse, and enjoying the freedom and fun of homeschooling.

I'm printing up a little saying for myself and putting it on the front of my refrigerator. It simply says:

Take Time.

Blessings,

Kim

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Gratitude

Tue, Jul 15th - 12:13PM

Today I want to recommit myself to being present in every moment. I'm asking God to help me savor my time with my family. I want to keep my eyes on the Lord and on them -- and off of myself! That just might help me relax some more, too...

Kim

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Living in America....

Fri, Jul 4th - 12:46PM

I apologize! Long past time for a new post here on the "Relaxed Homeschool" blog. I suppose you might think I've been a little *too* relaxed this summer... actually, that's only half-true.

During June I didn't exactly relax, but I did have a good time. ;-) My 17yo daughter and I traveled from our small northern California town to the heart of NYC for an awards ceremony at Carnegie Hall. (She wrote a play about children in the Holocaust for the Scholastic Young Artists & Writers National Contest.) For a week, we visited all the sites -- Empire State Building, Ellis Island, Central Park, Metropolitan Museum of Art, etc... -- and we spent a lot of time at the Museum of Jewish Heritage. It was a wonderful experience for both of us.

Then we came home for a week, and that was great, too. The rest of the family had kept everything running smoothly while we were gone. Of course, we knew that already because we have cell phones now and had stayed in touch daily. ((I finally gave in to this technology just before the NY trip. I hold out on these kinds of things as long as I can -- pure stubbornness, I suppose...). So I wasn't surprised to see my tomatoes were actually alive and the laundry was caught up, but it was still a nice homecoming. Also very nice was the way my 2yo came running to hug me with open arms. ;-) "Absence makes the heart grow fonder" does work most of the time.

A week later, my 17yo daughter and I left on another adventure. This time we flew to Washington, DC for the National History Day competition. (She'd won the California History Day research paper category for her work on the White Rose -- a group of college students who were executed for writing and distributing anti-Nazi material.) We had a great time during our week in DC. She hadn't been there since she was about 3, so we tried to see as much as possible. Like all things in life, we had to prioritize our choices since it was obvious we couldn't begin to cover everything.

We toured all the monuments, of course, and we just "happened" to enter the Tidal Basin walkway between the Washington Monument and the Jefferson Memorial as a very brief, light shower ended. As we stepped forth from the overhanging trees on to the sidewalk, we were greeted with a young man running crazily past us as a middle-aged woman a slight distance away shouted, "We can take 'em live! We can take 'em live!"

For a moment, we wondered.

Then we noticed the huge TV camera that was facing the water, and we realized they were talking about taking pictures "live" for the local news broadcast. As we looked to our left we were almost overwhelmed with the beauty and awe of a huge double rainbow that reached all the way from the Jefferson Memorial on the right side of the Basin to the Washington Monument on the left side. We started snapping pictures frantically ourselves, and though our little cameras couldn't take in the entire expanse, we did manage to get some spectacular shots. God's artistic ability truly is amazing!

The highlight of our DC trip was definitely the entire day we spent at the United States Holocaust Memorial Museum. I cannot describe to you the impact this place had on us, despite the fact that we have studied that period in history extensively. Seeing and hearing firsthand the stories of those who were murdered and those who survived changed us deeply.

Since being back from these trips, I have enjoyed settling into our "summer" routine, but things are certainly not going the way they usually do. We are surrounded by fires on all sides. None of them are endangering our own immediately local community -- some are within 15 miles, some are 25 miles away, and others are 120 miles from here. But all of them have flooded our valley with heavy smoke that blots out the sun almost constantly. Sometimes days go by where we have nothing but that ominous dark brown/grey fog everywhere. Sometimes it's just up in the sky; sometimes it's so thick we can't see more than 50 yards down the road. There are hundreds and hundreds of fires burning right now, most originally sparked by dry lightning storms a couple of weeks ago. Miraculously, I have heard of no one dying due to any of the fires. In this area, we owe a lot to our firefghters.

So the annual fireworks celebration for today has been canceled. Some of my kids usually play in the community's July 4th Band , but that, too, is not happening this year. Yet these changes don't mean we are not taking time to think about what this country and its freedoms mean to us -- as a family, as homeschoolers, as Christians, and as Americans. More so right now than ever before perhaps, as we look to the elections coming in November, as we consider all we saw in NYC and in DC recently, as we realize again what this country is to us today and what it has been to others in the past, we thank God for the blessing of America.

Happy 4th of July to all of you! 

Kim

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Staying Relaxed in the midst of Being Busy...

Fri, May 2nd - 5:51PM

My life is crammed full of activity.

I'm chasing my toddler, grocery shopping... again ("Mom, there's nothing to eat!"), reminding my teens of various important deadlines, working just a little in the garden, updating my Netflix queue with appropriate history DVDs, helping the kids with their math (carrying, borrowing, making change, deciphering Roman numerals, reducing fractions, and conquering algebra... by the way, I now know the answer to "Where am I ever going to use all this math?"), planning a craft-filled colonial party for my 10yo dd (even though I am soooo not-crafty!), reading aloud another great book, baking lots of cookies, matching lots of socks (and wondering how I always end up with 87 singles in search of mates), staying up late into the night with my older kids to discuss the genocide going on in Darfur and the upcoming U.S. elections, meeting at the local bookstore with a mom who wants to talk about pulling her kids out of public school, looking at my "mending basket" momentarily before deciding it can wait (another few years...), teaching a Sunday School class, buying plane tickets to NYC (for my 17yo dd's national award ceremony - she wrote a play about children in the Holocaust), arranging for my son to come home from college for the summer, drawing hopscotch squares in the driveway and then demonstrating my expertise, finishing just a couple more pages in my son's scrapbook, cheering at the Awana Grand Prix (and taking pictures of all their amazingly designed cars), reading a whole book just for me, writing (articles, letters, plays, online groups), and -- of course -- chauffeuring. ;-)

So yes, I'm definitely busy!


Don't misunderstand me though. I'm not complaining about being busy. I love my life. Truthfully, I consider it to be a simple one. I don't feel rushed (except very occasionally); I don't feel frantic; I don't feel exhausted. Instead, I usually feel satisfied, happy, even exhilarated. I used to wonder why my busy life makes me feel this way, despite the fact that I am actually a quiet type who prefers solitude much of the time. In contrast, many people I know seem overwhelmed with what they call the "craziness" of their lives. So I really thought and prayed about it.

What I finally realized is that my life energizes me and makes me feel content (though still challenged) because we are doing the things that we have decided are truly important to us. These are not the same things that would be important and fulfilling to every family, but they are what God has specifically laid on our hearts to make priorities in our lives at this time. Since I am sure that what we are doing is what is best for us right now, I have no need to worry or second-guess. I can relax and enjoy our time with each other as we move through our busy days.

I pray that you and your family are fully enjoying whatever it is that God has given you to do in this season of your life.

So rush on -- and relax!



Blessings,

Kim

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Welcome to my "Relaxed Homeschoolers" Blog!

Tue, Apr 22nd - 5:06PM

Relaxed Homeschoolers... Exactly what are we anyway?

People are always asking me what makes up our relaxed homeschooling days. Of course, as any honest mom who takes the relaxed homeschooling approach can tell you, every day in every family is different. However, I hope that in this blog we can explore together what makes the relaxed homeschooling life so interesting, so rewarding, and so much fun.

To start us off, I thought I’d share some different things that "real-life" relaxed homeschoolers actually do on a regular basis. Perhaps you’ll recognize your own children here!

Relaxed homeschoolers…

... experiment with making "portable soup" like Lewis and Clark did for their expedition. Decide it's good but very salty.

... wonder when and how people discovered that salt was so valuable for keeping food from rotting (and for disguising the taste of food gone bad). Study the salt trade route.

... dig for dinosaur fossils in the backyard. Discuss how they will spend the money from the sale of the bones they will discover.

... decide no dinosaurs lived on this street. Go inside and watch a DVD on creation vs. evolution.

... study the American Revolution and the Constitution. Read about Thomas Jefferson, Patrick Henry, Alexander Hamilton, and John Adams. Go outside and enthusiastically play "Federalists vs. Anti-Federalists." Being homeschoolers, they all want to be ANTI-Federalists, of course! ;-)

... hike on the River Trail. Collect rocks and wildflowers. Compile a chart comparing the number of dogs seen to the number of baby strollers.

... learn about the famous Chinese repeating crossbow, the Cho-Ko-Nu. Realize it was in serious use for over two thousand years. Go outside and build one.

... spend hours composing beautiful music, building Lego masterpieces, cutting out paper dolls, baking cookies and muffins, designing tree forts, writing plays, sewing costumes, eating, eating, and eating some more, memorizing Scripture verses for Awana, debating the finer points of ancient history, painting watercolors for the fair, growing a garden, creating big messes, reenacting OT Bible stories, looking up interesting words in the dictionary, reminiscing over scrapbook pictures, dissecting old appliances, having tea parties, listening to Mom read aloud great books, and planning how one day they will change the world!

Isn't homeschooling fun? ;-)

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